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David V. Hunter Remarks on the occasion of receiving the Heritage Award in honor of Mary Wade’s 150 years of service

April 13, 2017

Greetings!  We’re thrilled to be receiving this Corporate Heritage Award, and wish to thank Tony, Larry Bingaman and the Board Members for recognizing Mary Wade is this fashion.  I am here with Mary Wade’s Leadership which includes Trustees and Senior Staff.

Leo Connors offered an excellent and succinct history of Mary Wade, but when you get to be our age, you like to elaborate on those old stories.  On September 8, 1866, a group of ladies met at the home of Mrs. Eli Whitney, just on the other side of the Green on the corner of Elm and Orange Streets, for the purpose of starting a home for homeless girls. They formed a board, raised $6,000, purchased a house and property at 118 Clinton Avenue in Fair Haven,often called Dragon Village because of the seals that sunned on the banks of the Quinnipiac River.  On December 2 of that same year, in less than three months since their first meeting, they opened the doors and the first president was Mrs. Joseph Sheffield.

This group of prominent women named our organization, The Home for the Friendless, and from 1866 to 1900, the Home served many young women, single mothers and children.  However, in the early 1900’s the board explored a new mission and policies that changed the Home's direction.  The Annual Report for 1924 stated, “The discussions have been along the lines of how we could do the most good for the greatest number.”  It was here that the board authorized the use of the name The Mary Wade Home, and the mission turned to providing a home to elderly women.

The Home survived tumultuous and boisterous events throughout the years, the end of the Civil War, two World Wars, major Depressions, Dramatic events.  The women of New Haven managed the Home for almost 100 years.  Then, in 1976, the board was inspired to elect the first man, the first male resident was admitted in 1982, and in 1990 Frank Hepler became the first male board chair.  

Today, Mary Wade continues at the original location which has been its home for 150 years.  As we continue to strive to do the most good for the greatest number, our services have grown both within our walls and outside too. 

• Today, we are the largest employer in Fair Haven.
• We provide over 10,000 transportation trips annually that bring seniors to physician offices, grocery shopping and centers of worship. 
• We have a new non-medical home care service, called Mary Wade at Home to offer assistance to seniors who are struggling to maintain independence at home.
• Our Adult Day Health Program allows seniors to come to our center for the day and return home in the evening.
• Our Residential Assisted Living offers a home like environment with supportive services to those seniors who require assistance.
• Mary Wade’s skilled nursing service is the only five star program, as rated by the government, in New Haven, and we over both short term rehab stays and chronic long term care services. 

Our culture exemplifies a Mission of Service, Excellence and Innovation both within our walls and in the community at large. 

Mary Wade is a proud and active member of Fair Haven and participates in the Chatham Square Neighborhood Association and Fair Haven Community Management Team, and we provide affordable housing to workforce families.

We are expanding our campus this year with the construction of a new state-of- the-art assisted living building that will include a memory care center. 

Finally, we offer you the opportunity to celebrate our 150^th year by attending our 12^th Annual Wine Dinner to be held on April 29^th here in this beautiful ball room.  Ticket information can be found on our website, on Facebook, Twitter and Instagram --- or you can come over to our Table Number 12 and we’ll provide you with an invitation.  All proceeds of this event will support increased staff training to be more effective in providing care to those suffering with Alzheimer’s disease.

Many Thanks for this great honor, and we also wish to congratulate esteemed guests on the dais, to newly elected board members and incoming President DelMonico.  

“This place is going to help a lot of people, not just in terms of job training and employment, but also to be a beacon for the city,” says ConnCat Executive Director Erik Clemons. “For our students, it’s not just about getting people jobs. It’s about how they feel about themselves and believing there are possibilities beyond the conditions that they see every day.” 

ConnCat recently opened the Orchid Cafe, run by its culinary academy students, many of whom came with barriers to employment and career advancement. Read more.

How do you identify potential donors? What information do donors want to know about your organization? How can you move current donors to make larger gifts? What are the best practices around stewarding your donors year round to keep them engaged?

The recorded podcast was presented by Jackie Downing, Director of Grantmaking and Nonprofit Effectiveness at The Community Foundation for Greater New Haven. Listen to the podcast.

On Monday, Judge Neil Gorsuch was sworn in as an associate justice of the U.S. Supreme Court, succeeding Justice Antonin Scalia, who passed away in February 2016. Now that the court is once again at its full strength of nine justices, how will Gorsuch’s addition affect the Supreme Court, and especially nonprofits and nonprofit causes, in ...

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Charitable Spirit is Now Available in Retailers across Connecticut

BRANFORD, Conn. – Salute American Vodka, a high-quality craft vodka company, has announced a new partnership with Brescome Barton, Inc., the largest wholesale distributor of spirits, wine, and beer in Connecticut. The partnership will bring Salute American Vodka from more than 90 locations already sold to nearly every retailer across the state.

A spirit with soul, Salute American Vodka is a leader of corporate social responsibility in the spirit industry. The first dollar of every bottle sold goes directly to organizations that assist veterans and other American heroes in their pursuit of an education, furthering their careers, starting a business and achieving the American dream. The company’s charitable mission mirrors Brescome Barton’s commitment to carry socially responsible brands in the alcoholic beverage industry.

“We are proud to partner with Brescome Barton, a distributor that will not only help Salute American Vodka to expand across the state but a company that holds similar conscious business standards,” says Mike Lutz, Operations Manager of Salute American Vodka. “At Salute American Vodka, we have a product with a social mission and we put the mission first. One hundred percent of every Salute American Vodka dollar contributed goes directly to organizations that help veterans and other American heroes in their local communities.” 

One of Salute American Vodka's charity partners is  Work Vessels for Vets, Inc. The Connecticut-based nonprofit organization equips America’s returning veterans with the tools they need to start a business or pursue career education. The nonprofit works with veterans in the Greater New Haven area and across the state as well as across the country.

Salute American Vodka is USA Certified™ product, meaning everything from the ingredients to the packaging was made in the country. It’s an 80-proof vodka that is distilled four times, giving it a thicker pour with a clean, smooth, and odorless taste. In June 2016, the brand was acquired by Handcrafted Brands of Branford, Conn. The vodka is bottled and distilled in Rochester, N.Y. For more information about the brand and its impact, visit: www.saluteamerican.com.  

About Salute American Vodka

Salute American Vodka is launching nationwide in 2017. The first dollar of every bottle sold is donated directly to organizations that provide programs and services, which support veterans and other American heroes. The high-quality, 80-proof, award-winning craft vodka is USA Certified™; it is 100 percent American-made from the ingredients to the bottle. The vodka is distilled four times, giving the spirit a thicker pour with a clean, smooth and odorless taste. In June 2016, the brand was acquired by Handcrafted Brands of Branford, Conn. Salute American Vodka is bottled and distilled in Rochester, NY. For more about the brand and its impact or to find a retailer that carries Salute American Vodka near you, visit: www.saluteamerican.com. 

About Brescome Barton, Inc.

Brescome Barton, Inc. is the largest wholesale distributor of spirits, wine, and beer in the state of Connecticut. In business since 1936, we have grown significantly through acquisitions and new supplier relationships and continue to grow each year through additional appointments of suppliers and brands.

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Higher Heights builds a community of college-bound students. Photo provided by Higher Heights.

Thirteen years ago, Higher Heights stepped in to help underrepresented college-bound students in Greater New Haven. Now, the organization is bringing its model to other districts and college access programs around the state with training programs that help counselors better support minority, English Language Learner, and low-income students.

“It’s very exciting. We’ve been doing good work in New Haven and now we’re going to have a statewide reach,” says Executive Director Chaka Felder. Continue reading here.

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Weekends are rocking at the Amity Teen Center. On Friday and Saturday nights, crowds can swell to over 100 young people coming out to listen to line-ups of four or five bands. Chances are, they heard about the show from the performers themselves.

“We are teaching the bands self-promotion and marketing,” says Amity Teen Center Executive Director Jennifer DiBlanda. “We pay them a percentage of the gate, so the more friends they bring in, the more money they walk out the door with.”

In addition to the popular band nights on the weekends, the center is open three days a week after school. It offers teenagers a place to do homework, play video games (on computers assembled by young members), shoot baskets, or simply hang out with friends. Continue reading here. 

Join us at Family Centered Services of CT annual Spring Cocktail Party & Auction on Thursday May 4, 2017 at Amarante’s Sea Cliff in New Haven, CT. Music by Caribbean Vibe and Guest Auctioneer: Eric Hummel., Featuring fantastic auction items:  a weekend in Mystic, NYC, cruise on Long Island Sound, a day of papering plus much more!

This upcoming year we will be celebrating a milestone, our 40^th anniversary.  Family CT has been a leader in providing free home-based parenting education, domestic violence counseling and care coordination for children with special health care needs.  This past year we reached over 1800 families and the need continues to grow. It is because our services are free and home-based that we can reach many under-served families who would not be able to accept services otherwise.

Tickets: $75.00 per person

Table of 8:   $480.00

Table of 10: $ 600.00

To purchase tickets visit; www.familyct.org and click on the Annual Spring Cocktail Party & Auction.  Questions? contact: Susan D'Orvilliers at 203-624-2600 ext. 118 

Mary Wade has maintained its 5 Star Rating by the Centers for Medicare and Medicaid (CMS) which is the Federal Agency that provides Medicare and Medicaid Services and additionally performs annual inspection visits to the Nation's 15,600 nursing homes.  Mary Wade is the only nursing home in New Haven with a 5 Star Rating from the Federal and State Government.

Nursing homes vary in the quality of care and services they provide to their residents. Reviewing health inspection results, staffing data, and quality measure data are 3 important ways to measure nursing home quality. This information gives you a "snap shot" of the care individual nursing homes give.  This information is important when you are faced with a decision to select a nursing home for you or members of your family.

As a result of the latest rounds of inspections Mary Wade has maintained its 5 Star Rating, which means its overall all rating is "Much Above Average".  This overall rating is comprised of three areas of focus:

• Quality Measures
• Staffing Measures
• Performance during Annual Surveys.  

Mary Wade has a 5 Star Rating, "Much Above Average", in the Quality Measures, which involves clinical areas such as the:

• Low Percentage of short-stay residents who were re-hospitalized after a nursing home admission  
• High Percentage of short-stay residents who made improvements in function
• Low Percentage of short-stay residents with pressure ulcers that are new or worsened
• Effective Pain Management 
• Low Percentage of short-stay residents who are newly administered antipsychotic medications (major tranquilizers)

Mary Wade is also given a 5 Star Rating, "Much Above Average", in the area of Staffing, which means that clinical staffing is higher in quality and in numbers, and measures the staffing levels of the following:

• Registered Nurse (RN)
• Licensed Practical Nurse (LPN) and Licensed Vocational Nurse (LVN)
• Certified Nursing Assistant (CNA)
• Physicial Therapists (PT)

Mary Wade is given a 4 Star Rating, "Above Average", under the categories of:

• Health Inspections
• Complaints
• Fire and Safety Inspections

This information is extremely helpful when faced with a decision to select a nursing home for either short term or long term care services for you or a family member.   When you are in this position it is also important to remember that neither your doctor or a hospital staff can force you to select a nursing home, by law, you and only you are the one to make this decision.  If you need guidance or advice on any of this information, you can obtain it by contacting Rosanne Mondrone at Mary Wade by calling 203.562.7222 or email at rmondrone@marywade.org, or David V. Hunter at 203.672.7810. 

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Every day after school, each young child and teenager who walks through the doors of the New Haven Boys and Girls Club is welcomed by name and given a high five. An afternoon packed with activity awaits them, from homework help, to art and technology projects, to basketball and other athletics. But it’s the personal attention from caring mentors that is at the core of club’s mission to inspire young people to realize their full potential. Continue reading here.

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Mary Wade Home is grateful to be the 2017 Recipient of the Corporate Heritage Award presented by the Greater New Haven Chamber of Commerce which will be presented at the Chamber's 223rd Annual Meeting on April 13 at the Omni New Haven Hotel.

We are receiving the Heritage Award as we plan for ground breaking of a major addition to our senior campus in Fair Haven. www.marywade.org

At the heart of Citywide Youth Coalition’s mission is creating opportunities for young people to develop leadership skills and be engaged in their schools, neighborhoods and communities. Now more than four-decades old, the youth organization supports and runs programs based on the Positive Youth Development model of adolescent behavior. The model is based on research that shows when young people have a variety of experiences to learn,  participate in decision making, and are supported by nurturing adults, they develop “protective factors” that help them avoid making bad decisions. Continue reading.

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Inok Magliaro's son receives multiple services at Fellowship Place.

Her letter Afraid of the Elephant in the Room.

When it comes to a physical illness, we show sympathy and open our hearts to help friends, relatives, and even strangers on occasion. Mental illness, while not manifesting itself physically like many other diseases, is still stigmatized. If you describe mental illness scientifically, it is the illness of the part of brain which is not functioning properly. Unlike other illnesses, we seem to be most afraid of talking about mental illness. Why is mental illness treated so differently by our society?

The silence often facing mental health magnifies the problems people already face with the illness. The stigma of mental illness may lead to people not being as open about sharing their experiences or others not offering as much support to those in need as much as other illnesses. If the brain does not function properly, an individual can have many different conditions, including depression, mania, schizophrenia, anxiety and memory loss. Left untreated, someone may experience extreme stages such as suicidal thoughts and paranoia and phobias of being attacked physically and mentally. Mental illness not only affects the people who have it, it affects their family, friends and our society. 

What if the illness was treated before the person had these symptoms? It often can be properly treated with careful monitoring of medicine dosage, psychological help, providing meals and housing and places to go for those left alone. Opportunities for support, individual care, and social connections will help the patient greatly which in turn, will eventually help his or her friends, family and our society. 

It seems that the care of those with mental illness is the elephant in the room. Our society tends to not want to think or talk about it and not take care of those facing mental health difficulties; we are trying to sweep the issue under the rug. Instead, it is time to take a good look at this issue. As an example, former Massachusetts First Lady Kitty Dukakis and Governor Dukakis both do great work to open communication of this subject by describing Kitty’s depression and her experiences with treatments. We need more of this openness. 

There is not much fundraising for the mentally ill community. We strongly need to have more supportive places for those who need mental health services like the Fellowship Place. “Fellowship Place provides a broad range of support services for adults with mental illness” and “offers an eclectic group of programs and services that emphasize wellness, creative expression, giving back to the community, and the importance of social relationships” (source:
fellowshipplace.org). The organization provides crucial psychological help and emotional and physical comfort including meals and housing. If we are not afraid of the elephant in the room and work hard together to provide funds for agencies like Fellowship Place, we will move to a better society.

Please support the Fellowship Place. Do not let yourself succumb to the indifference shown towards mental illness. You can donate by mailing a check to Fellowship’s address at:

Fellowship Place
441 Elm Street
New Haven, CT 06511

You can also visit their website to find out more or donate directly
at: fellowshipplace.org 

Inok Magliaro
Bethany resident for 26 years

During the month of March, our focus is on Children and Youth; in particular, organizations that provide services for positive youth development. These nonprofits (below) are highlighted as part of our series "A Closer Look," which runs through September 2017.

Learn more about the other nonprofits on giveGreater.org that promote Children & Youth in our region. 

Almada Lodge - Times Farm Camp Corporation

Amity Teen Center

Arte

Boy Scouts of America, CT Yankee Council

Boys & Girls Club of New Haven

Boys & Girls Club of the Lower Naugatuck Valley

Catholic Charities

Central Connecticut Coast YMCA - Main Branch

Citywide Youth Coalition

College Summit Connecticut

Easter Seals Goodwill Industries Rehabilitation Center

Elm City Internationals

Elm City Robo Squad

Farnam Neighborhood House

Girl Scouts of Connecticut

Guilford Center for Children

Hamden/North Haven YMCA

Higher Heights Youth Empowerment Programs

Housatonic Council, Boy Scouts of America

JASON Project

Junior Achievement of Southwest New England

Junior Achievement of Western Connecticut

JUNTA for Progressive Action

Kidnetic ClubHouse

Latina Army

Leadership Education and Athletics in Partnership

Music Haven

New Haven Ballet

New Haven YMCA Youth Center

New Haven Youth Soccer

New Haven Youth Tennis

Pequenas Ligas Hispanas de New Haven

Seymour-Oxford Nursery & Child Care Association

Shelton High School Robotics Team

Shepherds

Solar Youth

Soundview Family YMCA in Branford

Spanish Community of Wallingford

Squash Haven

Student Parenting and Family Services

The West Haven Community House Assoc. Inc.

Valley YMCA

West Haven Child Development Center

Women of Power Network

Woodbridge Community Playground

Woodruff Family Y in Milford

Architecture Resource Center

Calvin Hill Day Care Center

Center for Children's Advocacy

Children in Placement Connecticut

Children's Center of Hamden

Children's Community Programs of Connecticut

Children's Law Center of Connecticut

Christian Community Action

Community Fund for Women & Girls

Concepts for Adaptive Learning

Connecticut Juvenile Justice Alliance

Connecticut Voices for Children

Consultation Center

Covenant to Care for Children

Family Centered Services of CT

Foundation of the Greater New Haven Chamber of Commerce

Gesell Institute of Child Development

Jewish Home for Children

Lower Naugatuck Valley Parent Child Resource Center

New Haven Diaper Bank

New Haven Family Alliance

New Haven Healthy Start

New Haven Reads Community Book Bank

New Haven Scholarship Fund

R Kids Family Center

School for Ethical Education

TEAM

Women and Family Life Center

Youth Continuum

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Needs of New Haven: an outreach program that supports groups and individuals throughout the community.  Past activities have included gatherings where New Haven-area community service organizations such as the Community Mental Health Center or La Puerta Community Development can meet with members to discuss their programs and what volunteer support they need.  Our Needs of New Haven program has also organized hat-knitting for the homeless and providing food and heating fuel to families in financial distress, as well as other forms of compassionate service to the community.

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Humanist Haven: a combination lecture and small-group discussion program offered semi-monthly that includes speakers from across the nation, with talks centered on how to live lives of meaning and ethical intention.

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YHC seeks a leader who is passionate about people; who understands how an eclectic group of atheists, skeptics, agnostics, and even believers can unite around humanism; and who can balance program leadership with administration and fundraising responsibilities. The Executive Director is supported by the Director of Operations, a Board of Directors, and a team of volunteers dedicated to the mutual support of our participants and the good of our community..

For more on the position and expected qualifications, and more details about applying, please visit bit.ly/YHCED.